Self-Control: A Tool for Happy and Prosperous Life

Abstract

The principle of self-control, if rightly understood, is not a lofty one, but clear and sure. It does not aim at mighty objects, but attains without excessive exertion all those at which it aims. As it lies within the reach of us all, everyone can learn and retain it with some efforts in our capacities. By its admirable conformity to human weaknesses, it easily obtains great dominion. It is not precarious, since the principle checks one personal interest by another, and uses, to direct the passions, the very same instrument that excites them. Self-control is the ability to control impulses and reactions, and is another name for self-discipline. It is not some kind of negative and limiting behaviour, as some people might think. When self-control is used wisely and with common sense, it becomes one of the most important tools for self improvement and for achieving success. Self-control is vital for overcoming obsessions, fears, addictions, and any kind of unsuitable behaviour. It puts one in control of one's life, behaviour, and reactions. It improves relationships, develops patience and tolerance, and is an important tool for attaining success and happiness. The things which create hurdles and obstacles in self-control and how one can remove all these barriers to develop self-control are the basis of this paper. This paper aims at providing an insight about the aspects of self -control in view of real life situations.