PENGUATAN PERILAKU NGELONI ANAK OLEH ORANG TUA SEBAGAI BENTUK PENDIDIKAN KELUARGA HARMONIS DAN SEIMBANG

Abstract

One of important aspects in educating children to have a harmonious, balanced, and lasting family is to concern on parenting since early times. One of the ways is to hug a child. This paper discusses the importance of child development so they can build a harmonious family. When the parent demonstrates their affections to their children by hugging, the children will get a double touch from their parent (father and mother) and they do not get the touch from one of them. Hugging children has a big role to child development in the future. The more the parent gives a sincere affection, positive situation, friendship, the more children will get strong of personality. A good and health personality will affect self-children positively when they build a family to become a harmony family. On the contrary, the less the parent give a warm hugging likes no affections and sincerity, derision, insult and reproach; the more the children will get a sick personality. Such personality will be a problem for children either in the present times or during the development period from childhood to teenage and adult.