Patriarchy and family life: Alternative views of male youth in rural South Africa

Abstract

abstract In South Africa, the patriarchal system, based on the powerful role of the father as the head of the household, affects family life and is a significant risk factor behind intimate partner violence and family disintegration. This article presents findings of research conducted with a sample of male youth attending schools in the Ugu District in rural KwaZulu-Natal. The study investigated the perspectives of the youth on issues relating to the head of the household, decision-making, the treatment by parents of sons and daughters and the youths' relationships with their parents. The research forms part of a broader study on gender-based violence. The sample consisted of three groups, each made up of ten Zulu-speaking males aged between 15 and 24 at three secondary schools. Data were collected using focus group discussions and, subsequently, individual in-depth interviews with twelve of the young men. Data were analysed using content analysis and discourse analysis. The findings revealed both support for and contesting of patriarchal practices and dominant constructions of manhood. Participants displayed awareness of the defining roles of men and women in the home, subordination of women and the differential treatment of boys and girls. Several young men expressed support for more equitable gender relations. The findings have significant implications for interventions to enhance understanding and improve relationships within families.