Partners in the Spiritual Dance: Learning Clients’ Steps While Minding All Our Toes

Abstract

We present four case illustrations highlighting the complex interplay of therapists' and clients' spirituality in therapy. Complexity, in these cases, results from (a) degrees of similarity and difference, both real and perceived, between clients' and therapists' spiritual beliefs and practices; (b) degrees of spiritual disclosure; (c) characteristics of the therapeutic relationship; and (d) geographic and cultural influences. Practicing therapists and therapist training programs can benefit from addressing how therapist and client spirituality intersect and influence therapy, how both similarity and difference present obstacles and opportunities, and how ambiguity and assumptions can contribute to misunderstandings. We believe that both the therapist's and the client's spiritualities are key influences in therapy that can contribute to the frustration, and the growth, of clients and therapists alike.