Abstract

Conflict coaching is a relatively new concept, derived from the domain of executive coaching. The concept has gained a foothold in the conflict resolution literature. There have been references made to a narrative practice of conflict coaching but it has not been articulated as fully as it might be. Here we seek to describe such a practice in relation to Foucault’s concept of the care of the self and Deleuze’s concept of the event. We also outline Deleuze’s approach to the reading of time as chronos and aion and show how these different readings might be put to use. A set of guidelines for narrative conflict coaching are proposed and transcribed conversation is provided as a case study to illustrate the process in action. In this conversation, the conflict coach asks questions which lead the client through an exploration of the series of events that make up the conflict story, the externalizing and deconstructing of this conflict story, and the opening of a counter story as a basis for the client’s preferred future conduct in relation to the conflict.

Highlights

  • Conflict coaching is a relatively new concept, derived from the domain of executive coaching

  • Conflict coaching refers to conversations with one party to a conflict that do not reach the point of becoming a joint mediation

  • Narrative conflict coaching has not been extensively written about, nor is it widely known. It can benefit from being articulated in case study examples that serve as a benchmark for future exploration

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Double listening

Listen to both the conflict story and the counter story. 7. Ask deconstructive Loosen the authority of dominat- How much were gender stoquestions ing discourses or lines of force ries, or race, or the conventhat run through a series of tional family idea, or normality events

10. Map the effects
12. Ask about preferences
16. Extend preferred values into the future
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