Mothers’ Experiences of Their Sons’ Appearance-Altering Combat Injuries: Distressed and Unsupported

Abstract

Emerging evidence indicates that combat injuries that change appearance, such as limb loss and physical scarring, can impact psychosocial wellbeing of injured military veterans. Parents of young children with a visibly different appearance may experience emotional distress and consequently have their own support needs, but less is known about the experiences of the parents of veterans with appearance-altering combat injuries. Using a qualitative individual interview design, this study aimed to understand the experiences and support needs of parents of military veterans who sustained appearance-altering combat injuries. Reflexive Thematic Analysis of interviews with six mothers identified two main themes “The distress of my son’s appearance-altering injury” and “I can’t express my distress”. The themes represent the emotional distress, guilt, and social difficulties experienced by the mothers following their sons’ appearance-altering injury, their experience of feeling they should supress their feelings of distress, the limited available support, and barriers to accessing support. This study highlights how the mothers of combat-injured veterans are often overlooked and provides emerging evidence that adjusting to a son’s changed appearance following combat-injury can create additional challenges for mothers, who could benefit from specific support.