‘It is better to beat her’: male youth in rural KwaZulu-Natal speak on violence in relationships

Abstract

abstract Various forms of gender-based violence exist among South African youth. While boys and girls may be victims of violence, male perpetrated violence against females is reported to be significantly higher. In arguing for the inclusion of males in addressing gender inequalities, this article explores male perspectives on gender roles and violence in relationships. Findings of research conducted in Ugu North, a rural area in southern KwaZulu-Natal on youth attitudes with regard to love, sexual activity, power and control, and the use of violence in relationships are presented and discussed. Using focus group interviews, data were collected from groups of male students attending secondary schools. The interviews were conducted in Zulu and were audio-taped, translated and transcribed. The themes that emerged from the transcripts form the basis for discussion. Based on the findings, the article concludes with ideas and challenges regarding interventions to address gender inequalities and to promote healthier relationships.