Intermittent Evaluative Mediation With Enduring, Postdivorce Conflict

Abstract

Pickar and Kahn (2011) recently presented a new alternative dispute resolution method for resolving child custody disputes. The settlement-focused parenting plan consultation (SFPPC) is a form of evaluative mediation conducted by a parenting plan consultant (PPC), who possesses the combined expertise of a mediator and child custody evaluator. The SFPPC was formerly presented as a single course of evaluative mediation. Given the changes that typically occur in the life cycle of a separated or divorced family, this article describes the expansion of the PPC role to provide intermittent evaluative mediation with families over time, as parenting plans may need modification when family circumstances or the developmental needs of the children change. This approach is tailored for the reality that “enduring conflict” is normative for a majority of families, who need assistance in engaging constructively in such conflict over time. Case examples of the intermittent use of a PPC are offered, and the unique skills that a child custody evaluator, also trained in mediation, can bring to families who want to resolve their child custody disputes outside of court are further elucidated.