“If You Don’t Lose Weight, the Government Will Take You Away”: An Analysis of Memorable Messages and Eating Disorders in the LGBTQ+ Community

Abstract

ABSTRACT Family communication plays a key role in children’s body image, disordered eating, and full-blown eating disorders;. However, much existing communication research on eating disorders has focused on general populations. As the LGBTQ+ community is disproportionately affected by eating disorders , more work is needed to better understand how family communication may be perceived as influencing eating disorders in the LGBTQ+ community. Thus, the current study aimed to further this understanding by examining familial memorable messages reported by LGBTQ+ individuals which they perceived to have influenced their eating disorders. In a Qualtrics survey, participants (n = 73) provided memorable messages received from family members and explained their significance. Results of a thematic analysis indicate five themes among the memorable messages: Problematic Body Size/Weight, Pathologized Eating, Emphasizing Appearance Ideals, Emotion Origins, and Other Focus. Findings support the theory of memorable messages and reveal the ways in which diet culture and LGBTQ+ identity stigma intersect within parent-child communication toward a perceived influence on LGBTQ+ eating disorders. Implications for future communication research on LGBTQ+ eating disorders, as well as practical applications, are discussed.