Identity formation and conflict in older Irish gay men

Abstract

This qualitative study explores how older gay Irish men understand and construct their sexual identity. In-depth semi-structured interviews were conducted to understand experiences and perceptions of being an older gay person in Ireland and the UK. Using thematic analysis we identified three themes: (i) experiences of sexual awareness and identity conflict; (ii) the dilemma of ‘staying in’ vs. ‘coming out’; (iii) dealing with identity conflict. The results suggested that many men faced challenges and barriers (both religious and cultural) to constructing a stable identity. We examined ways in which these identity conflicts were created and demonstrated how the men developed strategies to minimise these conflicts. Recommendations are provided for improved understanding of sexuality issues concerning minority clients within therapeutic work.