How We Talk About "Perpetration of Intimate Partner Violence" Matters.

Abstract

Many partners and children who are affected by intimate partner violence (IPV) are unable to leave abusive situations that put their health and safety at risk. Family physicians provide care for people who perpetrate IPV and are in a role that may allow them to recognize and counsel patients who are using violence. Appropriate referrals can potentially help these patients access effective interventions such as certified battering intervention programs in a manner that prevents violence for their families. The language used by physicians can facilitate or impede disclosures among patients perpetrating IPV who may be open or willing to discuss their use of violence. Talking about their behavior in ways that patients perceive as derogatory or confrontational may alienate people who use violence from initiating or engaging in meaningful discussions about their abusive behaviors in clinical settings and getting the help they need to stop their violence. To enable patients to safely talk about their own perpetration of violence, physicians need to develop appropriate language and a nuanced, evidence-based approach to broaching and discussing this issue with patients. As with other patient populations, being labelled may not accurately describe their identity, behavior, nor experiences, and result in them avoiding care. In keeping with trauma-informed approaches, we provide possible examples of respectful nonjudgmental language and nonthreatening clinically appropriate questions for people who use violence. Additional research is needed to identify how best to discuss perpetration of IPV with patients to help initiate change in their behavior while maintaining victim safety.