Families grieving together: Integrating the loss of a child through ongoing relational connections

Abstract

This study explored the relational dimensions of grieving within the family unit. Three families bereaved of a child, participated. Using the Qualitative Action-Project Method, individual and joint interviews were conducted with family members. Data analysis illuminated family grieving processes and demonstrated that grieving was an interactive process with individual, dyadic, multi-adic, and community levels of processing. The family grieving process included intentionality in grieving together and separately, recognition of differing grieving styles, and meaning came through the incorporation of ongoing rituals and remembrances. A finding emerged of family connection facilitated through an ongoing, shared, continuing bond with the deceased child.