Eğitim Kurumlarında İstenmeyen Davranışlar Sergileyen Öğrencilerin Tutum ve Davranış Kalıplarının Genel Özellikleri

Abstract

A bully is a person who intimidates a person who is considered to be physically or psychologically weak. The victims are people who are being bullied by hooligans.If a bully /victim is someone who bullies from time to time, then they are people who are on the side of being a victim from time to time. Bullying can happen in different ways. For this reason, there are many different classifications in the literature. Bullies are often aggressive and antisocial. Their aggression is directed not only at their victims, but also at their teachers and their families. They are not aware of their aggression, they accept their negative behavior as normal. They do not empathize with their victims, they do not take responsibility for what their victims are going through, on the contrary, they enjoy it and believe that their victims deserve it. In general, he is strong and durable, has good sports and gaming skills. They have high self-confidence, consider themselves smart and have good social skills. They are popular among their friends, they often lead a group of friends, and this group includes people who are trying to be like them. Dec. Victims tend to be more anxious, less self-confident, more timid and silent than their peers. School achievements are not as low as bullies. The ties with the school are not strong. They think they don't understand sports and games. They cannot achieve a certain success in their gaming activities. Their social circles are not wide, they are not popular among their friends, they make difficult friends. Dec. They are usually excluded and left alone. Victims are usually unable to defend themselves against the bully and show avoidance movements by staying away to avoid bullying. Bullies/victims are people who are bullied by those who are stronger than them and bullied by those they consider to be psychologically or physically weak. Victims' families often believe that their children are vulnerable, should stay away from conflicts, and prevent their children's social skills from developing. Domestic violence causes a child to become a bully by learning about aggression and reflecting it on his environment, or vice versa, closing himself in and becoming a victim, causing an increase in the risk of being part of bullying in general. When looking at family relationships, bully/victim children are often children who have been mistreated in the family. Their parents are aggressive and hostile, and they are usually people who try to solve problems by physical violence. Often the father is distant, cold and does not stay at home much, and the mother is the angry side. They are the children of families in which Deconflictions between parents are frequent. Key Words: Educational Institutions, Students, Undesirable Attitudes and Behavioral Patterns