Couples' conflicts: A territorial perspective

Abstract

Couples in psychological difficulties suffer from the fact that they miss a useful, change-provoking conceptualization of their problems. The Human Territorial model helps to see reality different and to get grip on specific problems and conflicts. It is also a model and a language that the therapist can teach the couples. Couples' problems are seen as territorial conflicts and relational irritations as important signals that the partner is entering the territory. A new view on numerous hidden techniques of territorial aggressiveness between partners that cause hostility is presented. The therapist helps the partners to develop specific change goals and better defensive and acquiring skills.