Children’s theory of mind as a mechanism linking parents’ mind-mindedness in infancy with children’s conscience

Abstract

Growing research on parental mind-mindedness has revealed significant positive associations between parents’ appropriate mind-minded (MM) comments to their infants and children’s future theory of mind (ToM). In turn, ToM has been broadly linked with a range of social-moral competencies. However, few (if any) studies have examined long-term paths from mothers’ and fathers’ mind-mindedness in infancy to conscience at early school age, with ToM serving as a mediator of those links. We tested such a model in a prospective longitudinal study of 102 community infants, mothers, and fathers. Parents’ MM comments to their infants were coded in naturalistic interactions in snack and play contexts at 7 months. Children’s ToM was assessed in false-belief tasks at 4.5 and 5.5 years, and two aspects of their conscience were assessed at 6.5 years: discomfort following transgressions and prosocial judgments in hypothetical moral dilemmas. We tested our model in a comprehensive path analysis that accounted for developmental continuity of both aspects of conscience. Children’s ToM was positively associated with both measures of future conscience. The long-term paths from parental mind-mindedness in infancy to conscience were found for mother–child relationships only. For mothers and children, we supported the paths from maternal appropriate MM comments during a snack context in infancy to both aspects of children’s conscience mediated by children’s ToM. The findings extend earlier evidence suggesting the potentially important role of the parent–child interactive context for long-term effects of early parental mind-mindedness and highlight differences in the roles MM comments may play in mother–child and father–child relationships.