Betrayal and Healing: The Aftermath of Judas' Kiss

Abstract

Acts of betrayal among clergy and parishioners can have devastating effects on a parish. Understanding and healing in the aftermath of betrayal can be accomplished through relating such acts to the scriptural betrayal of Christ by Judas. The motivations that led Judas to his betrayal of Jesus, and the methods and mindset through which this betrayal took place, are often similar to those found in everyday parish life. A desire for power and control, whether financial or personal, is frequently at the heart of the betrayer's actions, just as it was for Judas. Grief, anger, frustration, and confusion are often experienced by the affected congregation, just as it was among Jesus' disciples following Judas' betrayal. Healing the injury done in a betrayal requires open acknowledgment of the betrayer's actions as well as discussion of the effects that these actions have had upon the congregation.