Attributional patterns for expressions of love

Abstract

Words of love can be compelling messages in romantic relationships. However, like most messages, they serve multiple functions in accomplishing interactants’ goals. This study examined attributions about direct verbal expressions of love. Results indicated that initial expressions of love are typically verbalized by males and have several functions: 1) expression of authentic feelings, 2) ulterior motives, 3) situational influences, 4) comforting, and 5) confusion. Declarations were perceived differently according to gender and whether one initiated or received the message. Specifically, females and initiators were more likely to attribute statements to authentic feelings. Males mentioned situational influences more often.