Normalised multi-differential cross sections for top quark pair (hbox {t}{bar{hbox {t}}}) production are measured in proton-proton collisions at a centre-of-mass energy of 13,{text {TeV}} using events containing two oppositely charged leptons. The analysed data were recorded with the CMS detector in 2016 and correspond to an integrated luminosity of 35.9{,{text {fb}}^{-1}} . The double-differential hbox {t}{bar{hbox {t}}} cross section is measured as a function of the kinematic properties of the top quark and of the hbox {t}{bar{hbox {t}}} system at parton level in the full phase space. A triple-differential measurement is performed as a function of the invariant mass and rapidity of the hbox {t}{bar{hbox {t}}} system and the multiplicity of additional jets at particle level. The data are compared to predictions of Monte Carlo event generators that complement next-to-leading-order (NLO) quantum chromodynamics (QCD) calculations with parton showers. Together with a fixed-order NLO QCD calculation, the triple-differential measurement is used to extract values of the strong coupling strength alpha _{S} and the top quark pole mass (m_{{text {t}}}^{{text {pole}}}) using several sets of parton distribution functions (PDFs). The measurement of m_{{text {t}}}^{{text {pole}}} exploits the sensitivity of the hbox {t}{bar{hbox {t}}} invariant mass distribution to m_{{text {t}}}^{{text {pole}}} near the production threshold. Furthermore, a simultaneous fit of the PDFs, alpha _{S}, and m_{{text {t}}}^{{text {pole}}} is performed at NLO, demonstrating that the new data have significant impact on the gluon PDF, and at the same time allow an accurate determination of alpha _{S} and m_{{text {t}}}^{{text {pole}}}. The values alpha _{S}(m_{{text {Z}}}) = 0.1135{}^{+0.0021}_{-0.0017} and m_{{text {t}}}^{{text {pole}}} = 170.5 pm 0.8 ,{text {GeV}} are extracted, which account for experimental and theoretical uncertainties, the latter being estimated from NLO scale variations. Possible effects from Coulomb and soft-gluon resummation near the hbox {t}{bar{hbox {t}}} production threshold are neglected in these parameter extractions. A rough estimate of these effects indicates an expected correction of m_{{text {t}}}^{{text {pole}}} of the order of +1 ,{text {GeV}} , which can be regarded as additional theoretical uncertainty in the current m_{{text {t}}}^{{text {pole}}} extraction.