Evolutionary algorithms (EAs) require extensive fitness evaluations, which constitutes a barrier to solving computationally complex problems. In contrast, surrogate-assisted evolutionary algorithms (SAEAs) have the potential to solve complex expensive optimization problems. This paper proposes a surrogate-assisted social learning particle swarm optimization (SASLPSO) to handle expensive optimization problems. An adaptive local surrogate (ALS) strategy introduced in SASLPSO is introduced to accurately fit the landscape near the global optimum. ALS consists of two layers of surrogate, the part of the particles closest to the optimal particle and the closest to the optimal particle among the particles that have been eliminated historically. The proposed SASLPSO effectively combines global surrogate (GS) and adaptive local surrogate (ALS) to balance global exploration and local exploitation. Furthermore, a novel random group-based pre-screening (RGBPS) strategy is proposed to screen promising particles for real function evaluation. The proposed SASLPSO is compared with four other state-of-the-art SAEAs on 30D, 50D, and 100D benchmark functions. In addition, the significance of the SASLPSO algorithm was also verified using the Wilcoxon rank test. The test results on the benchmark function show that the SASLPSO algorithm performs better than other comparison algorithms, especially when dealing with high-dimensional benchmark functions. To further validate the effectiveness of the SASLPSO algorithm in solving expensive optimization problems, it was also applied to feature selection problems and real-world engineering problems. In addition, in the real application of node deployment in 3D wireless sensor networks, the highest coverage rate of the SASLPSO algorithm can reach 99.96%, confirming its performance advantages in solving real application problems. Finally, in the application of network intrusion detection, SASLPSO has shown more advantages in multiple metrics, proving its versatility.